Biologically Aligned Parenting
A framework for founders, executives, and high-performing parents who sense that something at home is not right and cannot find an approach that explains it clearly enough to act on.
Apply for a Free ConsultationMy name is Geoff Owen. I am the founder of Biologically Aligned Parenting, or BAP as most people who work with me come to know it.
I spent nearly forty years exploring how children develop and what they actually need from the humans around them. Over thirty of those years were lived directly, as a father to two daughters whom we raised without school, without curriculum, and without the reward and consequence frameworks that most parents are handed as standard.
Both daughters found their own way into further education on their own terms and in their own time. One is now a psychotherapist with a thriving practice. The other works with horses, children, and young people.
I did not engineer those outcomes. BAP made them possible.
I have written two books and work privately with founders, CEOs, and high-performing parents across the UK. I created BAP because no existing approach described what I was observing and living. The name is exact. That is precisely what it is.
Children are not born as blank slates waiting to be shaped, managed, and instructed into acceptable behaviour. They are born with a precise biological blueprint, built over hundreds of thousands of years, for what they need from the humans around them.
When those needs are met, children are calm, cooperative, and easy to be around. When they are not, they signal their distress the only way they can. This is an unconscious, innate reaction. It is not manipulative. It is not thought through. We call that signal bad behaviour. Then we spend enormous energy trying to manage it.
Modern parenting, almost without exception, is built around managing that signal. Think of a fire alarm. The alarm tells us there is a fire somewhere. Put the fire out and the alarm stops, because it is no longer needed. And yet when it comes to children, we find ourselves trying to control the alarm, its volume, its frequency, its disturbing of the peace, and we do this unwittingly. It does not occur to us to look for the fire, not knowing all the while that one is raging.
BAP asks a different question entirely. Not what do we do about this behaviour, but what is this behaviour telling us, and what does that reveal about what this child needs.
BAP is not a variation on modern parenting. It is an alternative to it.
Every engagement begins with a 45-minute conversation at no charge and no obligation. From there, you choose the level of support that fits your situation.
£500 per month · Minimum three months
Fortnightly calls
Teaching only. A thorough grounding in the BAP framework so you understand what is happening, why, and what to do. Comes with a satisfaction promise and a credited upgrade path to Tier Two, paying only the difference.
Apply for a Free Consultation£5,000 · Three months
Weekly sessions · Direct access between sessions
Full teaching alongside active coaching. More contact, more support, and a guaranteed outcome. If the agreed outcome has not arrived by the end of three months, I stay with you until it does at no extra charge. Includes a written family framework at close.
Apply for a Free ConsultationFrom £25,000 · Minimum six months
Private mentorship
For founders and executives whose professional ambition is putting their family's wellbeing and harmony at risk. A private, long-term mentorship relationship. Outcome guaranteed. Weekly sessions to begin, moving to fortnightly as stability is established. Most relationships run twelve to twenty-four months.
Apply for a Free ConsultationAt the start of every Tier Two and Tier Three engagement, we agree a specific, observable outcome. If it has not arrived by the end of the initial period, I continue working with you until it does, at no extra charge.
ODD
A non-clinical approach to children who say no. Written for parents who are living with defiance and opposition and need a framework that actually explains it.
The Parenting Assumption
An examination of the assumptions we inherit about what children are and what they need, and why those assumptions are costing us more than we realise.
If any of this is landing, I am open to a conversation. Forty-five minutes. We talk about what is happening and whether BAP is the right framework for your situation. Complete the form below and you will be taken straight to my calendar to choose a time.